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Counselling

Helping to empower you through counselling tailored to your unique needs.
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Specialist support

The purpose of counselling is to give you the space and support to move towards living in a way that feels more fulfilling and manageable for you.

Counselling can help with:

  • Working through specific problems.
  • Making important decisions.
  • Coping during times of crisis.
  • Developing personal insight and self-awareness.
  • Understanding and managing inner conflict.
  • Improving relationships.

Sessions last 50 minutes and take place in a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental environment.

What to expect

Your counsellor will:

  • Listen actively to help you feel heard and understood.
  • Offer reflection and gentle feedback.
  • Support you in expressing thoughts and emotions.
  • Help you explore and make sense of past experiences.
  • Work with you to challenge unhelpful beliefs and find new ways forward.

Through counselling, you may gain clarity, reduce feelings of isolation, and discover the right path for you.

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How counselling can help

If you have experienced domestic abuse, you may be struggling with feelings such as fear, confusion, low self-esteem, or powerlessness. You may even feel that the abuse was your fault. These feelings are common, and you are not alone.

Counselling can support you to:

  • Understand and process your emotions.
  • Rebuild confidence and self-worth.
  • Make informed choices for your future.
  • Break free from unhelpful patterns.

Our counsellors will not tell you what to do. Instead, they will help you to explore options and make your own decisions.

What we offer

ESDAS provides a professional counselling service. All our counsellors are members of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and follow its ethical guidelines and complaints procedure.

We offer short-term counselling (up to 12 sessions) using an integrative approach, which means the counselling style is tailored to your needs.

Your commitment

To get the most from counselling, it’s important to attend sessions regularly.

  • We ask you to commit to at least 6 weekly sessions (maximum of 12).
  • Sessions are held at our office, or we can offer telephone or video call sessions if needed.
  • Before starting, it’s important to consider whether this is the right time for you to begin counselling, based on your other commitments.

If you feel you may be ready for counselling, please speak to your outreach worker. They will talk with you about your readiness and complete a referral on your behalf.

Once referred, your name will be placed on our waiting list. Please note that we sometimes close the waiting list to help manage capacity and keep waiting times as short as possible.

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Advocacy

ESDAS advocacy stands with you, offering safety planning, practical help, legal support, and a voice to ensure your needs are heard.

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Group Work

ESDAS group programmes help survivors build confidence, resilience, and skills, with drop-ins offering safe connection and shared support.