We are here to listen to and support you.
We are a safe place to talk through your experiences, needs and options.
If you are concerned about someone you know and love, we can also support you.
We understand that people sometimes find it hard to recognise what they are experiencing and may not reach out to us themselves.
We understand that no situation is the same and that everyone is at a different stage in their journey. Wherever you are, we can provide emotional support, and if you’re not ready to end the relationship, we can give practical advice to support safety at home.
If you’re beginning to think about ending or leaving the relationship, we are here to help you plan leaving safely.
If you have left, we can risk assess your current situation and support your recovery.
We offer a wide range of support, but if there is something specific that may help you please ask. Here is some of the help we offer:
If we can’t help with something, we will put you in touch with a caring agency or organisation that will be able to help. Our contact details are below.
In an emergency call 999 or 101 for a non-emergency.
Report a crime or incident here.
Worried about someone else? You can find guidance on how to help using this link.
At ESDAS, survivors have rights to safety, respect, and support. You can live free from abuse, be heard without judgment, and access confidential help. Support is open to all, with legal, housing, financial, and digital safety guidance tailored to your needs.
Abuse can feel isolating, but ESDAS helps plan safety. From escape routes and emergency bags to securing your home and online presence, steps matter. Leaving can be dangerous, so seek specialist advice. ESDAS provides guidance tailored to you.
We help anyone living or working in Reigate & Banstead, Tandridge, or Mole Valley who is currently experiencing, or has experienced domestic abuse. We work with people aged 16 or over, of any gender, sexuality, religion, or background.
If you live outside of these areas, Refuge is a nationwide charity that will be able to provide support wherever you live.
We understand that reaching out for help can feel overwhelming. Whether you’re unsure about your situation, ready to take action, or somewhere in between, ESDAS is here to listen, believe, and support you.
Our service is free, confidential, non-judgmental, and independent, available to anyone affected by domestic abuse who lives or works in Reigate & Banstead, Tandridge, or Mole Valley. If you live outside of these areas, Refuge is a nationwide charity that will be able to provide support wherever you live.
Report a crime here.
Worried about someone else? You can find guidance on how to help here.