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Help for the LGBTQ Community

Domestic abuse is a serious issue for the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer community. It’s been reported that approximately 25% of LGBTQ individuals experience violent, abusive, or threatening relationships from partners or ex-partners.

There are additional factors that may act as barriers for the LGBTQ community to seek help:

  • The fear of being ‘outed’ to friends, family or agencies when you are not ready.
  • The misconception that domestic abuse is only physical abuse when it can be emotional, financial, sexual and psychological.
  • Fear of homophobic reactions or a lack of understanding from the police, alienation from family or friend or that there is no help or refuge for someone who is LGBTQ.
  • Dependency on a partner to remain part of the ‘scene’ and the fear that losing the partner will result in rejection by the community that offers so much support.

ESDAS offer a confidential service.  Please contact us for advice and support if you need it: support@esdas.org.uk or 01737 771350

What happens when you contact ESDAS?

We understand that reaching out for help can feel overwhelming. Whether you’re unsure about your situation, ready to take action, or somewhere in between, ESDAS is here to listen, believe, and support you.

Our service is free, confidential, non-judgmental, and independent, available to anyone affected by domestic abuse who lives or works in Reigate & Banstead, Tandridge, or Mole Valley. If you live outside of these areas. Refuge is a nationwide charity that will be able to provide support wherever you live.

Surrey helpline: 01483 776822

Find out more on contacting ESDAS
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Resources

Power & Control Wheel for LGBTQ Relationships

South West Surrey Domestic Abuse Services (SWSDAS)

If you would prefer support from a domestic abuse service that specialises in working with the LGBTQ community.

Call: 01483 898884

GALOP

Call: 0800 999 5428

Catalyst Support

Catalyst Support is a great resource for additional support for the LBGTQ community.

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