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Emergency Numbers: 999 (Dial 55 while on the line if you cannot speak), ESDAS: 01737 771 350
Everyone has the right to live in safety, make their own choices, and be treated with dignity and respect. This is no different if you have a disability, long-term illness, or additional needs.
Domestic abuse is never your fault and having a disability should never mean you are less safe or less heard. We know that sometimes social workers and health professionals don’t ask people with disabilities about their relationships. This can make it hard to talk about any fears you might have in relationships with your partner, children or other family members.
People with learning disabilities are up to three times as likely to experience domestic abuse. 16% of women with a long-term illness or disability had experienced domestic abuse compared to 6.8% of non-disabled women.
Sometimes the person harming you might also be your carer, or you may rely on them for certain daily needs. We understand how complex this can be and how it can feel harder to speak out when you depend on that person or worry about losing your independence.
Abuse can sometimes take different forms including:
You have the right to be safe, to have control over your own life, and to be treated with respect; whatever your disability, needs, or circumstances. We can work with the professionals involved in your care and help them and you to understand what is happening.
If you are worried about how someone is treating you, or if you are being prevented from making your own choices, please contact us on 01737 771350 or email support@esdas.org.uk.
We will work with you to find a way forward that is safe, empowering, and right for you. We can use assistive technology, hearing loops and support workers to help you be understood and get the right support. Our office is accessible and we can use safer community spaces if that works for you.
We understand that reaching out for help can feel overwhelming. Whether you’re unsure about your situation, ready to take action, or somewhere in between, ESDAS is here to listen, believe, and support you.
Our service is free, confidential, non-judgmental, and independent, available to anyone affected by domestic abuse who lives or works in Reigate & Banstead, Tandridge, or Mole Valley. If you live outside of these areas. Refuge is a nationwide charity that will be able to provide support wherever you live.
Surrey helpline: 01483 776822
“Us Too” is a group of disabled and autistic women who have built a toolkit for other disabled survivors.
Domestic abuse support for the deaf can be found at Sign Health.
The Pegasus scheme is for anyone who has a disability or illness that may make it hard to communicate with the police in an emergency or difficult situation.
