I Need Help - ESDAS | East Surrey Domestic Abuse Service

If you are in immediate danger call 999 and ask for the police.

If you cannot speak, press 55 when the operator is on the line (Silent Solution).

Coming to this page is a brave first step. With the right support, recovery and safety are possible.

We are a confidential service and can talk with you on the phone 01737 771350 or via email support@esdas.org.uk Monday to Friday 9-4pm.

We will ask what you feel you need right now and go from there.

National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247 (24/7, free).

If possible, keep your phone charged and with you.
Agree a code word with a trusted friend/family member so they know when you need urgent help.
Keep some essentials ready (ID, keys, money, medication) in case you need to leave quickly.
Delete browsing history after visiting sites like this one (use “quick exit” button if available).

Listen and support you without judgment.
Advise on safety tailored to your situation.
Provide practical help around housing, money, benefits, and legal options.
Give emotional support and counselling.
Offer specialist services for children and young people.
Support you at every step – whether you choose to stay, leave, or are unsure what to do.

Find out more about how our team can support you:

ESDAS provides confidential emotional and practical support, helping you rebuild strength, regain control, and plan for a safer future.

We support anyone affected by domestic abuse, offering understanding, guidance, and advocacy to help you move forward safely and confidently.

When you reach out, our team listens without judgment, explains your options clearly, and connects you with the right services for your needs.