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Emergency Numbers: 999 (Dial 55 while on the line if you cannot speak), ESDAS: 01737 771 350
It can be scary looking for help because of the way someone you love is behaving.
Domestic abuse, relationship abuse, toxic or controlling behaviour can be experienced by anyone of any age and is more common than you think.
This can also look different for those who are disabled, from an ethnic minority or LGBTQ and we understand the additional barriers there can be to accessing support.
Whatever’s going on, you deserve to feel safe, respected, and heard – and there are people who will believe you and stand by you.
If you’re worried about your partner or ex-partner’s behaviour, please do call us on 01737 771350 or email support@esdas.org.uk.
Unless at the time of calling, you were at immediate risk of harm, your call is completely confidential. We are here to listen and if you would like advice, we are here to support and provide information with practical tips and help to promote safety. You are not alone.
Learn more about the warning signs of toxic relationships and domestic abuse. Educating yourself about abuse could help you – or someone close to you – stay safe.
You can find other sources of help, advice and information toward the bottom of this page.
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Galop provides free, confidential and independent support for LGBT+ young people aged 13 to 25.
We understand that reaching out for help can feel overwhelming. Whether you’re unsure about your situation, ready to take action, or somewhere in between, ESDAS is here to listen, believe, and support you.
Our service is free, confidential, non-judgmental, and independent, available to anyone affected by domestic abuse who lives or works in Reigate & Banstead, Tandridge, or Mole Valley. If you live outside of these areas. Refuge is a nationwide charity that will be able to provide support wherever you live.
Surrey helpline: 01483 776822
You may have shared an image, or someone may have taken an image without your consent which can be really upsetting. If you are concerned further information can be found here.
Take it Down is a service with steps you can take to help remove online nude, partially nude, or sexually explicit photos and videos taken before you were 18.
You’re worried about a friend's relationship. Download the PDF.
