East Surrey Domestic Abuse Services


We are here to help.  01737 771350 Monday to Friday 9am - 4pm.

 Or Surrey Helpline 01483 776822 9am - 9pm

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What is Domestic Abuse?


Domestic Abuse is any incident or pattern of incidents of controlling, coercive, threatening behaviour, violence or abuse between those aged 16 or over who are, or have been, intimate partners or family members regardless of gender or sexuality


It arises from the misuse of power & control by one person over another. It is rarely a one-off event, but tends to escalate in frequency and severity over time.


Abuse in the home is more widespread than you think. It affects men & women of all ages, ethnicities, orientations and income levels, regardless of ability. 


It is not easy to accept that a loved one can behave so aggressively and because you cannot explain the behaviour, you assume that it is your fault.  You are not to blame for your partner’s behaviour.

Everyone has the right to live life free from threats, violence and abuse and help is available.


You are NOT alone!

Who we are and what we offer


East Surrey Domestic Abuse Services is an independent charity providing outreach and associated services in the borough of Reigate & Banstead and the districts of Mole Valley and Tandridge.


  • We offer a confidential listening service to anyone affected by domestic abuse and violence


  • We can give practical advice about your legal position and can put you in touch with solicitors who are experienced in domestic abuse issues


  • We can advise you on your housing options

  • We can help you look at your children's needs


  • We may be able to arrange transport if you wish to leave your home


  • We can put you in touch with other caring agencies and sources of help and attend appointments with you if you wish


  • We can talk to you on the phone or meet you face to face to discuss any concerns that you may have about your relationship

Contact us:

Call us in confidence on

01737 771350

9am - 4pm Mon - Fri

Email support@esdas.org.uk

SMS  07860 039720

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Call us in confidence on

01737 771350



Text 07860 039720


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Useful Numbers:


Surrey Domestic Abuse 9am - 9pm Helpline 01483 776822


Report a Crime:

999 (emergency) 
101 (non-emergency)

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